Canada's Child Support Guidelines - Family Responsibility Office

"The Formula From Hell"

A divorced dad uncovers a deliberate policy to drive separated parents apart!

Candis McLean - The Report

Toronto geologist Alar Soever was going through a divorce early in 1996 when he first encountered the federal Child Support Guidelines which recommend amounts non-custodial parents should pay for child support.

“My lawyer couldn't tell me how the figures were arrived at,” he recalls, “so I contacted the federal Department of Justice which said that the document to explain the formula would be published in the fall of 1996.

That made sense, since Parliament was going to debate the guidelines that winter. “Mr. Soever then telephoned every two months, but the guidelines were never “ready.” The controversial guidelines were passed by Parliament in February 1997 and came into effect two months later. The research report (CSR-1997- 1E) which explained the formula was not released until 14 months after Parliament' s decision.

Mr. Soever is a methodical man, and was intrigued by a number of issues, including how regulations affecting the lives of hundreds of thousands of divorcing parents could have passed without any public documentation as to how the guideline amounts were calculated. To find out, he undertook four years of investigations.

On April 5 he released his findings to an Ottawa forum, Toward Shared Parenting, co-sponsored by the Family Forum of Ottawa and the National Alliance Advocating for the Needs of Children and Parents. His 31 page document was titled “The Federal Child Support Guidelines: A Breakdown of Democratic Process and the Canadian Legal system.”

According to B.C. resident Ross Bailey who attended the meeting, “Alar' s paper has the whole non-custodial and grand-parenting community across the country buzzing because they knew something was wrong with the guideline formula, but needed someone to tell them how it was wrong.”

That community may buzz even louder with the news that last week, among materials obtained by Liberal MP Roger Gallaway through the Freedom of Information Act, Mr. Soever finally found an explanation of the guidelines which had been prepared in the fall of 1996. He believes the explanation was repressed because it gives examples of the financial consequences of the guidelines, “transparently indicating how unfair the formula is” (see story , P. 54). One of those to whom he revealed the document compared the situation to the “tainted-blood scandal,” in which the government' s suppression of information caused irreparable damage “By not telling the judiciary what the formulas really meant, they caused serious harm which has included driving people into bankruptcy and even suicide.”

As a geologist, Mr. Soever examines mineral reserve to separate the truth from self-serving hype, checking assumptions, formulas and calculations. “When I examined the guidelines,” he says, “ I realized it was like the Bre-X scandal, complete with flawed assumptions and skewed calculations. It was driven by psychology, with everyone thinking it was child support so it must be good, but it' s actually promoting custody battles and hurting children. The bottom line? No one appeared to have done the due diligence on the underlying formula.” He ended with a stunning question: “How is it that in a democracy we can have guidelines which contravene the Divorce Act, are based on a largely unknown, admittedly deficient formula, and are derived from undisclosed policy decisions that promote the loss of substantial contact with one parent?”

What Mr. Soever learned is that the guidelines as implemented contain not only child support but spousal support (which contravenes the Divorce Act), and overestimate expenditures on children for the custodial parent while underestimating them for non-custodial parents. That conclusion is also reached by University of Calgary sociology PhD student Paul Millar (www.canadianfamilyresearch.org), in research to be published in the June edition of the peer-reviewed academic journal, the Canadian Journal of Law and Society.

The formula used to generate the guidelines Mr. Soever learned, makes two key assumptions in all cases, whether valid or not:

1.The paying parent is always assumed to have the expenses of a single adult (i.e. no parenting expenses); and 2.The incomes of the paying and receiving parent are assumed to be equivalent.

In those cases where these assumptions match reality, the model does meet its objectives; equal standard of living and a sharing of expenses between the two parents. In practice, however, the amount of time that the non-custodial parent has custody of the child can range up to 40% (when over 40%, the guidelines do not apply).

Among parents with average incomes, if the paying parent spends no time with the children and thus has no expenses, his standard of living tends to 16% higher than the receiver's. If, however, the paying parent is an involved one, he or she has expenses often almost as high as the other parent's. Yet the guidelines deny recognition of this.

In fact, Mr. Soever has determined, if the parents have average incomes, once custody exceeds 5% (roughly one night every two weeks), the non-custodial parent and the children when they are with him are penalized with a lower standard of living than in their other home. Once custody approaches 40%, the standard of living in that home is almost 30% lower than in the other home, and barely above the poverty line.

In other words, concludes Mr. Soever, the more time children spend with their divorced non-custodial father the poorer he gets and the more difficult and impoverished their time together. “The guidelines,” he says, “offer clear and powerful financial disincentives to joint parenting by penalizing those payor parents with substantial custody, Most perversely, parents who abandon their children are actually rewarded with a higher standard of living than the children they abandon.”

A further by-product of the guidelines, the researcher says, is that they encourage custody battles as parents strive for the magical 40% threshold, and the benefit to the custodial parent is lost. Mr. Soever knows of one case where a wife was prepared to allow her ex-husband joint custody and about 38% residence time with the children, but not the 50% he desired.

This led to protracted mediation and negotiations. The father suspected the guidelines' magical 40% threshold was the root of the problem. To test his theory, the father asked if the children might occasionally have lunch at home with him on Fridays. “Obviously, a hot lunch at home with a parent was preferable to brown-bagging it in a crowded cafeteria,” he says. “This, however, would have put him over the magical 40%. It was not really a surprise when the mother' s lawyer responded, ‘My client is absolutely not agreeable to your suggestion with respect to the children having lunches.' The mother was prepared to fight a costly custody battle just to retain the 40% threshold. Could there be any Read More ..atant example of the insidious nature of these guidelines?”

Ottawa economist Ross Finnie, now an adjunct professor with the School of Policy Studies at Queen' s University in Kingston, was one of the developers of the guidelines, but has since published critical articles in the Ottawa Citizen: “A dubious ‘victory' for divorced families” and “federal proposal may worsen custody, payment programs,” as well as a paper, “Good idea, Bad Execution: The Government' s Child Support Package” (caledon@caledoninst.org).

Mr. Finnie believes the underlying guidelines are fair, but objects to the custodial parent receiving all the tax credits. His major criticism, however, is the same as Mr. Soever. The 40% threshold with no allowance for expenses, he says, “came out of the air with no real explanation. It came from within the Justice Department. Some people were topnotch, working with technically difficult concepts such as ‘What does a child cost?' and just wanting to do the right thing, but that was not uniformly the case. I suspect someone said, “How can we ratchet up these rewards a little bit?' Let' s just say,” he smiles enigmatically, “it ended messily between myself and the Justice Department.”

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5,000 women polled

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DNA paternity test confirms fraud, annulment granted: judge | Visayan Daily Star Newspaper | Phillipines

DNA test confirms fraud, annulment granted: judge

The Visayan Daily Star, Bacolod City, Philippines, BY CARLA GOMEZ, February 28, 2009

Bacolod Regional Trial Court Judge Ray Alan Drilon has annulled the marriage of a Negrense couple after a DNA test showed that the child borne by the wife was not the biological offspring of the husband who works abroad.

The family court judge ruled that the marriage of the couple, whose names are being withheld by the DAILY STAR on the request of the court, was null and void.

Due to fraud committed by the wife in getting her overseas worker husband to marry her, properties acquired during their marriage are awarded in favor of the husband, the judge said in his decision, a copy of which was furnished the DAILY STAR yesterday.

The judge also declared that since the overseas worker is not the biological, much less the legitimate father of the child of the woman, the Civil Registrar is ordered to change the surname of the child to the mother's maiden name and remove the name of the plaintiff as father of the child.

The complainant said he was working as an electronics engineer in the United Arab Emirates and on his return to the Philippines in 2001, his girlfriend of 10 years with whom he had sex, showed him a pregnancy test result showing that she was pregnant.

On receiving the news he was overjoyed and offered to marry her. Shortly after he went to Saudi Arabia to work, and his wife gave birth to a baby girl in the same year.

The birth of the child only five months after their marriage puzzled him but his wife told him that the baby was born prematurely, so he believed her, the husband said. Read More ..

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Adulterous woman ordered to pay husband £177,000 in 'moral damages'

The Daily Mail, UK
18th February 2009

An adulterous Spanish woman who conceived three children with her lover has been ordered to pay £177,000 in 'moral damages' to her husband.

The cuckolded man had believed that the three children were his until a DNA test eventually proved they were fathered by another man.

The husband, who along with the other man cannot be named for legal reasons to protect the children's identities, suspected his second wife may have been unfaithful in 2001.

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Experts found animals that fool around are only following the urges of biology.

New studies using genetic testing techniques show that even the most apparently devoted of partners often go in search of the sexual company of strangers.

Females stray to gather the best possible genes for their offspring, while males are driven to father as many and as often as possible.

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"We must vigilantly stand on guard within our own borders for human rights and fundamental freedoms which are our proud heritage......we cannot take for granted the continuance and maintenance of those rights and freedoms."

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DNA: Why the truth can hurt

The Sunday Times
Australia
March 27, 2005

IT sounded too good to be true and it was.

The fairytale that saw Federal Health Minister Tony Abbott reunited with the son he thought he had given up for adoption 27 years ago, ABC sound-recordist Daniel O'Connor, ended this week when DNA tests confirmed another man had fathered Mr O'Connor.

The revelations were devastating for all involved, not least Mr O'Connor.

Still reeling from the emotional reunion with his mother, Kathy Donnelly, and Mr Abbott a few months ago, a simple test of truth has thrown the trio into disarray a situation familiar to thousands of other Australians.

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Courier-Mail Newspaper
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From correspondents in Rio de Janeiro
Agence France-Presse

September 18, 2007

A BRAZILIAN woman has been ordered by the country's Supreme Court to pay a hefty fine to her husband for failing to mention that he was not the father of two of their children.

The Rio de Janeiro woman, whose identity was not disclosed, was ordered to pay her husband over $US100,000 ($120,170 Australian Dollars) for having hidden from him for almost two decades that the children in question were fathered by a lover, the court's offices said yesterday.

The husband also had sought damages from his wife's lover, the court said.

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Daily Mail UK

Adulterous woman ordered to pay husband £177,000 in 'moral damages'

The Daily Mail, UK
18th February 2009

An adulterous Spanish woman who conceived three children with her lover has been ordered to pay £177,000 in 'moral damages' to her husband.

The cuckolded man had believed that the three children were his until a DNA test eventually proved they were fathered by another man.

The husband, who along with the other man cannot be named for legal reasons to protect the children's identities, suspected his second wife may have been unfaithful in 2001.

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About The truth

"All truth passes through three stages. First it is ridiculed, Second it is violently opposed. Third it is accepted as self-evident."

Arthur Schopenhauer
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