Teenagers do their own family planning
The Age (Melbourne, Australia), By Amanda Dunn, Health Reporter, June 21, 2004
Contrary to popular belief, not all teenage pregnancies are accidents. A Victorian study has found that about a third of young mothers plan their pregnancies, and many believe having a baby will be one of the most positive experiences of their lives.
The attraction, said Julie Quinlivan, a professor of obstetrics at Melbourne University and head of the Royal Women's Hospital's "Young Mums" clinic, is in part the chance to build a loving family life for themselves, which is sometimes in contrast to their own experience.
In a study of 100 women who planned to continue their pregnancies, half of whom were teenagers, Professor Quinlivan found that the younger women were more likely to have come from fractured families.
more than half of the teenagers' parents separated before they were five, compared with just 8 per cent of the older women's parents. They also were more likely to have been exposed to violence between their parents (22 per cent compared to 2 per cent), and to have had negative relationships with them.
For some teenagers, creating their own family was a way to escape. Professor Quinlivan said: "If you have an adverse early life, you want to grow up fast, and get out early to feel safer."
The study, the first in the world to look at the psychological background of teenage mothers, also found they had higher rates of depression than older mothers. The findings have been published in the Australian and New Zealand Journal of Psychiatry.
One of the strongest themes to emerge from interviews with the women, Professor Quinlivan said, was the women's idealisation of motherhood - more than half agreed it would be the most exciting event of their lives.
And part of that anticipation was the prospect of a baby's unconditional love.
"That comes through all the time, that this is someone who loves me," she said.
She said the findings showed that a more sophisticated approach to reducing the number of teenage mothers in Australia was needed - that it was not simply a matter of improving sex education or access to contraception. Rather, it was one of "breaking the cycle", as the children of teenage parents were more likely to become teenage parents themselves.
Professor Quinlivan believed federal Health Minister Tony Abbott's plan to allow parents access to the Medicare records of their children under 16 (up from under 14) would be a false step. She said that by the age of 15 young people should be able to control information about their health. But she also believed that 14 was too young to make decisions on their own, and that they needed the support of an adult.
"I just find that when you get girls who are sexually active at 14, they often do have a lot of other issues," she said.
In Professor Quinlivan's experience, about a third of teenage mothers coped well with their new role, about a third had a mixed experience, and the remaining third fared poorly.
"The ones who do well have family support, get back into education, and don't have another baby straight away," Professor Quinlivan said. About half of teenage mothers have another child within two years, which makes it difficult for them to continue their education.
Those who view motherhood as a positive step often take action to care for their babies from early pregnancy. The study found that 60 per cent of the teenagers who smoked quit with the onset of pregnancy, compared with 77 per cent of the older mothers. Nearly three-quarters of the teenagers who drank alcohol stopped (compared with 86 per cent of older mothers). The younger women were more likely to be illicit drug users before pregnancy, and three-quarters stopped when they became pregnant. All the older mothers who used illicit drugs quit during pregnancy.
Professor Quinlivan was delighted that some Victorian schools were looking at ways of supporting young mothers and fathers to finish their schooling.
"Even though they have had a child, we have got to say 'look, this doesn't mean you throw your education options away'," she said.
Scotland's National Newspaper
96% of women are liars, honest
5,000 women polled
Half the women said that if they became pregnant by another man but wanted to stay with their partner, they would lie about the baby's real father.
Forty-two per cent would lie about contraception in order to get pregnant, no matter the wishes of their partner.
Paternity Fraud TV Show
CBC News: Sunday
An indepth look at paternity fraud, men's and children's rights. 10 minutes.
This segment of CBC News: Sunday was on a paternity fraud case in which the husband was ordered to pay child support for 2 children which weren't his biological children.
Canada's largest
national newspaper
Mommy's little secret
The article contains info about children's identity fraud at The Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.
December 14, 2002.
Includes interview with employees of Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto, Ontario, Canada who admit they deny children's identity information to husbands/male partners of mothers who want to hide the real identity of their child because they had an affair. The U.N. Convention on the Rights of The Child specifically supports a child's human right to have a relationship with both his/her biological parents. In addition, this article is proof that The Hospital for Sick Children ("Sick Kids") supports paternity fraud.
Further "Sick Kids" supports a mother's rights only, which they view, supersedes 3 other people's rights, namely, the rights of the biological father, the rights of the mother's male partner/husband and the child's identity rights.
One in 25 fathers 'not the daddy'
Up to one in 25 dads could unknowingly be raising another man's child, UK health researchers estimate.
Increasing use of genetic testing for medical and legal reasons means Read More ..uples are discovering the biological proof of who fathered the child.
The Liverpool John Moores University team reached its estimate based on research findings published between 1950 and 2004.
The study appears in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health.
Biological father
Professor Mark Bellis and his team said that the implications of so-called
paternal discrepancy were huge and largely ignored, even though the
incidence was increasing.
In the US, the number of paternity tests increased from 142,000 in 1991 to 310,490 in 2001.
Adulterous woman ordered to pay husband £177,000 in 'moral damages'
The Daily Mail, UK
18th February 2009
An adulterous Spanish woman who conceived three children with her lover has been ordered to pay £177,000 in 'moral damages' to her husband.
The cuckolded man had believed that the three children were his until a DNA test eventually proved they were fathered by another man.
The husband, who along with the other man cannot be named for legal reasons to protect the children's identities, suspected his second wife may have been unfaithful in 2001.
Paternity fraud: Is it or should it be a criminal offence under the Criminal Code of Canada?
You be the judge.
Who Knows Father Best?
Feminist organizations including the National Organization of Women (NOW) has objected to legislation that requires the courts to vacate paternity judgments against men who arent, in fact, the father.
Think about that. NOW wants some man, any man, to make child support payments. The woman who doesnt even know who the father is, should not be held responsible for her actions, is a sweet, loving, blameless mother who seeks only to care for her child and if naming some schmuck as father who never saw her before in his life helps her provide for the innocent babe, well then, that's fine.
Innocence is no excuse. Pay up. Read More ..
ABC
Australian Broadcasting Corporation
TV PROGRAM TRANSCRIPT
Broadcast: November 22, 2004
Who's Your Daddy?
Last year, more than 3,000 DNA paternity tests were commissioned by Australian men, and in almost a quarter of those cases, the test revealed that not only had their partners been unfaithful, but the children they thought were theirs had been sired by someone else. Read More ..
Who Knows Father Best?
Feminist organizations including the National Organization of Women (NOW) has objected to legislation that requires the courts to vacate paternity judgments against men who aren't, in fact, the father.
Think about that. NOW wants some man, any man, to make child support payments. The woman who doesnt even know who the father is, should not be held responsible for her actions, is a sweet, loving, blameless mother who seeks only to care for her child and if naming some schmuck as father who never saw her before in his life helps her provide for the innocent babe, well then, that's fine.
Innocence is no excuse. Pay up. Read More ..
Fathers May Get Money Back in Paternity Fraud Cases
18 March, 2005
FindLaw, Australia
Proposed new laws will make it easier for fathers to recover child maintenance payments if DNA testing reveals that they are not the child's father.
The Family Law Amendment Bill 2005 allows people who wrongly believed they were the parent of a child to recover any child maintenance paid or property transferred under an order of a court under the Family Law Act 1975 .
"The bill is intended to make it easier for people who find themselves in this position to take recovery action without the need to initiate separate proceedings for an order from a court of civil jurisdiction, such as a State, Local or Magistrates court," Attorney-General Philip Ruddock said.
DNA: Why the truth can hurt
The Sunday Times
Australia
March 27, 2005
IT sounded too good to be true and it was.
The fairytale that saw Federal Health Minister Tony Abbott reunited with the son he thought he had given up for adoption 27 years ago, ABC sound-recordist Daniel O'Connor, ended this week when DNA tests confirmed another man had fathered Mr O'Connor.
The revelations were devastating for all involved, not least Mr O'Connor.
Still reeling from the emotional reunion with his mother, Kathy Donnelly, and Mr Abbott a few months ago, a simple test of truth has thrown the trio into disarray a situation familiar to thousands of other Australians.
Paternity testing in Australia is a burgeoning industry.
The simplicity of the test cells are collected from a mouth swab grossly underestimates the seriousness of the situation.
Men wage battle on 'paternity fraud'
USA TODAY, by Martin Kasindorf, December 12, 2002
An acid sense of betrayal has been gnawing at Damon Adams since a DNA test showed that he is not the father of a 10-year-old girl born during his former marriage.
"Something changes in your heart," says Adams, 51, a dentist in Traverse City, Mich. "When she walks through the door, you're seeing the product of an affair."
But Michigan courts have spurned the DNA results Adams offered in his motions to stop paying $23,000 a year in child support. Now, Adams is lobbying the state Legislature for relief and joining other men in a national movement against what they call "paternity fraud." Read More ..