In Berg v. Perlow, Case No. CD 98-1285-FC, 15th judicial
circuit in Palm Beach County Florida dated March 15, 2000, specifically recognizing Parental Alienation
Syndrome, Some quotes include "the wife seeks sole parental responsibility and to eliminate any contact
between husband and child based upon the Parental Alienation Syndrome". Husband diagnosed as psychopath,
with copious quotes from DSM-IV. Father diagnosed as psychopath and child diagnosed with moderate to severe
Parental Alienation Syndrome by mental health professionals including Ellinger, Heller, Gardner and Bush.
Court order included:
"The Husband...shall have absolutely no contact with the parties" child (now 8) until the child
reaches age 14. No contact with the child forthwith shall include but not be limited to (the court will
specifically reserve jurisdiction as to this issue as the husband will probably find a way to somehow
circumvent this order, so that the Court will enter additional orders on behalf of the Wife so as to
require strict compliance with this order) the following:
A. No telephone contact
B. No e-mail contact
C. No computer contact
D. No videos
E. No visitation
F. No visits at school
G. No records from school
H. No records from any health care providers
I. No contact indirectly by third parties on behalf of the Husband, whether they are relatives or not."
The judgement also states:
"The Court finds that the order of the Court in which the Wife should not disparage the Husband to
the child is now becoming a detriment to the child. The wife needs to be as truthful to the child as
possible taking into consideration the child's youth, but that the wife should advise this child of this
Court's specific findings and why this Court has done what it has done, including but not limited to the
husband's extensive background involving his deceitfulness, his lack of remorse, his arrests, his poor
behavior control and impulsivity, his lack or empathy, and his total anti-social personality disorder".
The world of divorce is scary for any child. But when a divorce becomes
especially toxic, children can become the target of an unrelenting crusade
by one parent to destroy the child's relationship with the other. Experts
call it parental alienation.
The New York Times, New York city, U.S.A. August 8, 2004
Not too long ago, Jacqueline Scott Sheid was a pretty typical Upper East
Side mother. Divorced and with a young daughter, she had quickly remarried,
borne a son, and interrupted her career to stay home with the children while
her husband, Xavier Sheid, worked on Wall Street.
Early last year, Mr. Sheid lost his job and saw his only career
opportunity in California. But Ms. Sheid's ex-husband, who shares joint
legal custody of their daughter, refused to allow the girl to move away. So
Ms. Sheid has spent much of the last year using JetBlue to shuttle between
her son and husband on the West Coast and her daughter (and ex) on the East.
The New York court system, which she hoped would help her family to
resolve the problem, has cost her tens of thousands of dollars in fees for
court-appointed experts, she said, and has helped to prolong the process by
objecting to her choice of lawyers.
Courts criticized for recognizing 'parental alienation'
National Post
March 27, 2009
Toronto -- The scope of the courts' reach into family affairs has
long been contentious, but a recent trend in Canada's legal system has
brought a new controversy that has some onlookers praising judges and
others condemning them for accepting what they call "voodoo science."
More than ever before, Canada's judges are recognizing that some
children of divorced and warring parents are not simply living an
unfortunate predicament, but rather are victims of child abuse and
suffering from Parental Alienation Syndrome.
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Many celebrities would shrink from view after a PR nightmare like Alec
Baldwin's leaked voice mail in which he calls his 11-year-old daughter,
Ireland, a "rude, thoughtless little pig." But Baldwin wants to
use the media scrutiny to give exposure to parental alienation, the controversial "syndrome"
caused by one parent's systematically damaging a child's relationship
with the other parent.
Parental Alienation
B.C. judge bars mother from seeing daughter
Court orders one-year ban after 'unfounded' abuse allegations
made about teenager's father
THE CANADIAN PRESS March 10, 2009
VANCOUVER - In a case of extreme parental alienation, a mother has been
banned by a B.C. Supreme Court judge from seeing her teenage daughter for
more than a year.
Because of the urgency of the matter, Justice Donna Martinson issued
the terse, two-page ruling outlining 15 conditions the parents must follow,
including that the mother, known only as Ms. A, not see her daughter until
at least March 31, 2010.
The decision came after the mother alleged extreme emotional abuse by
the father, which she claimed was putting the teenager's safety at risk.
"I am satisfied that Ms. A's allegations are unfounded,"
Martinson wrote.
"I am further satisfied that she has continued to undermine the
relationship between M and her father and has acted in ways that are detrimental
to M's psychological healing."
Names have been stripped from the court ruling to protect the girl's
identity.
The judge has ordered that both the mother and maternal grandmother have
no contact with the girl, which would be enforced by police if necessary.
Some victims of parental alienation syndrome don't realize
until adulthood that one parent turned them against the other
The Globe and Mail March 24, 2009
After Joe Rabiega's parents divorced, when he was an adolescent,
his father repeatedly told him his mother had abandoned him. The boy had
to return any gifts that came from his mother's side of the family and,
twice daily, he had to pledge his allegiance to his father.
"I was never allowed to have anything to do with her," he says
from his home in Raleigh, N.C. "The consequences were dire if I did.
He said I would have nobody."
Even though Mr. Rabiega, now 33, had witnessed ugly behaviour by his
father toward his mother and knew his dad to be an erratic alcoholic, it
wasn't until he sought counselling for personal problems in his early
20s that his past snapped into focus: He had been the victim of parental
alienation syndrome - his father had systematically turned him against his
mother.
The phenomenon, coined by psychiatrist Richard A. Gardner in 1985, has
gained traction recently due to a number of recent high-profile divorce
cases in Canada - not to mention the very public case of movie star Alec
Baldwin, who accused his former wife, Kim Basinger, of parental alienation.
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The Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is the systematic denigration by one parent by the other with the intent of alienating the child against the other parent. The purpose of alienation is usually to gain or retain custody without the involvement of the non-custodial parent (NCP) The alienation usually extends to the NCP's family and friends as well. Though this document is written with the father in mind, it must be clear that there are many cases of PAS where the NCP is the mother, and PAS from the non-custodial mothers' viewpoint will be discussed later.
Dr. Richard Gardner in his book 'The Parental Alienation Syndrome' states (p. 74) "Many of these children proudly state that their decision to reject their fathers is their own.";
They deny any contribution from their mothers. And the mothers often support this vehemently. In fact, the mothers will often state that they want the child to visit with the father and recognise the importance of such involvement, yet such a mothers every act indicates otherwise.
Such children appreciate that, by stating the decision is their own, they assuage mother's guilt and protect her from criticism. Such professions of independent thinking are supported by the mother who will often praise these children for being the kind of people who have minds of their own and are forthright and brave enough to express overtly their opinions.
Frequently, such mothers will exhort their children to tell them the truth regarding whether or not they really want to see their fathers. The child will usually appreciate that "the truth" is the profession that they hate the father and do not want to see him ever again. They thereby provide that answer - couched as "the truth" - which will protect them from their mother's anger if they were to state what they really wanted to do, which is to see their fathers.
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The 10-year-old Katy boy accused of murdering his father this summer
is now the face of an unofficial psychiatric disorder that may have lead
to his father's death.
Some psychiatrists call it Parental Alienation Syndrome and they say
that's why the son killed Doctor Rick Lohstroh last summer. The syndrome
is basically caused by a bitter parent who poisons a child against the other
parent, usually in cases of divorce.
THE CANADIAN BAR ASSOCIATION L'ASSOCIATION DU BARREAU CANADIEN
By Nicholas Bala, Suzanne Hunt & Carrie McCarney
Faculty of Law
Queens University
Kingston, ON Canada
Alienation cases have been receiving a great deal of public and
professional attention in the past few months in Canada. As with so many
issues in family law, there are two competing, gendered narratives
offered to explain these cases. Men's rights activists claim that
mothers alienate children from their fathers as a way of seeking revenge
for separation, and argue that judges are gender-biased against fathers
in these cases. Feminists tend to dismiss alienation as a fabrication of
abusive fathers who are trying to force contact with children who are
frightened of them and to control the lives of their abused former
partners. While there is some validity to both of these narratives, each
also has significant mythical elements. The reality of these cases is
often highly complex, with both fathers and mothers bearing significant
responsibility for the situation.
Two of the many findings are:
Mothers are twice as likely as fathers to
alienate children from the other parent, but this reflects the fact that
mothers are more likely to have custody or primary care of their
children; in only 2 out of 89 cases was a parent with only access able
to alienate a child from the other parent.
Fathers made more than three
times as many unsubstantiated claims of parental alienation as mothers,
but this too reflects the fact that claims of alienation (substantiated
and unsubstantiated) are usually made by access parents, who are usually
fathers.
Study says such cases should be moved out of court system, handled by
individual judges
The Globe and Mail
May 13, 2009
An escalation in parental alienation allegations is draining valuable
courtroom resources, a major study of 145 alienation cases between
1989-2008 concludes.
"Access problems and alienation cases - especially those which are
more severe - take up a disproportionate amount of judicial time and
energy," said the study, conducted by Queen's University law professor
Nicholas Bala, a respected family law expert.
"One can ask whether the courts should even be trying to
deal with these very challenging cases."
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