The Globe and Mail

The risks of children flying solo

The Globe and Mail, Douglas McArthur, Special to The Globe and Mail, published July 18, 2010

CanadianCRC editor comment 2026:
See the Canadian Transportation Agency - Seating of Children with an Accompanying Passenger on an Airplane: A Guide

This guide explains the steps airlines operating to, from and within Canada must take to help seat children under the age of 14 close to their parent, guardian or tutor (accompanying passenger) at no additional charge.

A Chicago-area father is suing Southwest Airlines, alleging staff failed to protect his 14-year-old son from an older woman who made sexual advances during a flight from Chicago to Florida.

According to attorney Jeffrey Deutschman, the teenager was not allowed to change seats despite repeated requests to flight attendants. The suit alleges the woman became intoxicated during the flight, harassed the child sexually and offered him illicit drugs.

It's a story to shock any parent whose child must sit alone on an airplane, which happens more than many may realize, especially during summer time when many children travel unaccompanied to attend camps, visit family, or as part of a shared-custody arrangement due to divorce or separation.

Air Canada, for example, carries 10,000 unaccompanied minors a year. Its website promises the children "are escorted by our highly trained staff from the moment they arrive at airport check-in until they reach their destination." Most airlines carry unaccompanied minors (UMs) upon payment of a fee, promising someone will watch over them through their journey.

But such close attention isn't always possible.

On occasion, children are sent to the wrong destination. Last month, Delta Air Lines sent two unaccompanied minors to the wrong city. One boy was flown to Cleveland instead of Boston during a connection. And a girl, destined for Cleveland, ended up in Boston. A Delta spokesman called the incident "exceedingly rare" and the airline offered the families apologies and refunds for their tickets.

WestJet scrapped its UM program in 2007 after a five-year-old Edmonton girl was led off the plane by a concerned fellow passenger who said the girl was being ignored by the cabin crew. WestJet replaced its UM program with a guardian fare, which allows parents or guardians to escort their children to their destination at a 50 per cent fare reduction.

"For all the money they charge, the airlines act as though somebody is actually going to watch over the child at every stage of the journey," says Diana Fairechild, a New York-based passenger advocate and former flight attendant. "It's not possible. Flight attendants are overextended and very busy, no matter how much they'd love to help. And many of them have children of their own."

Ms. Fairechild notes the Southwest case shatters the common perception children are safer seated beside a woman than a man. Most airlines, in fact, make every effort to give UMs a female seatmate.

Sending a child on a solo flight can be traumatic for most parents. But others worry if their child has to sit alone, even if they are on the same aircraft.

Liane Netherton of Elmvale, Ont., said she was unable to reserve adjoining seats for herself and her six-year-old daughter Samantha, when making an online booking for Christmas flights to Florida with United Airlines. She phoned reservations for assistance and was told the only way to guarantee her daughter would ride beside her was to pay an additional fee for Economy Plus seating. She did.

"It turned out to be a blessing," she says. Because of a snowstorm in Chicago and tightened security rules connected to a terrorist scare, passengers sat on the tarmac in Toronto for five hours. Being cut off from a small child for that time in a confined airplane cabin would be any passenger's nightmare.

As for worries about unaccompanied minors, travel guru Ms. Fairechild offers this advice: "Parents should look around the departure area and look for a family travelling together," she says. If you introduce your child to them, there is at least someone the youngster can talk to if there is a problem during the flight.

"You still can't be 100 per cent sure," Ms. Fairechild says, "but it's better than nothing."

Paternity Fraud
UK National Survey

Paternity fraud survey statistics

Scotland's National Newspaper

96% of women are liars, honest

5,000 women polled

Half the women said that if they became pregnant by another man but wanted to stay with their partner, they would lie about the baby's real father.

Forty-two per cent would lie about contraception in order to get pregnant, no matter the wishes of their partner.

Infidelity Causes Paternity Fraud

Time magazine - Infidelity - It may be in our genes. Our Cheating Hearts

Infidelity--It may be in our genes. Our Cheating Hearts

Devotion and betrayal, marriage and divorce: how evolution shaped human love.

South Korean Husband Win Paternity Fraud Lawsuit - Associated Press

South Korean Husband Wins Paternity Fraud Lawsuit

Associated Press, USA
June 1, 2004

South Korean husband successfully sues wife for Paternity Fraud and gets marriage annulled.  Wins $42,380 in compensation

Paternity Fraud Philippines

DNA paternity test confirms fraud, annulment granted: judge | Visayan Daily Star Newspaper | Phillipines

DNA test confirms fraud, annulment granted: judge

The Visayan Daily Star, Bacolod City, Philippines, BY CARLA GOMEZ, February 28, 2009

Bacolod Regional Trial Court Judge Ray Alan Drilon has annulled the marriage of a Negrense couple after a DNA test showed that the child borne by the wife was not the biological offspring of the husband who works abroad.

The family court judge ruled that the marriage of the couple, whose names are being withheld by the DAILY STAR on the request of the court, was null and void.

Due to fraud committed by the wife in getting her overseas worker husband to marry her, properties acquired during their marriage are awarded in favor of the husband, the judge said in his decision, a copy of which was furnished the DAILY STAR yesterday.

The judge also declared that since the overseas worker is not the biological, much less the legitimate father of the child of the woman, the Civil Registrar is ordered to change the surname of the child to the mother's maiden name and remove the name of the plaintiff as father of the child.

The complainant said he was working as an electronics engineer in the United Arab Emirates and on his return to the Philippines in 2001, his girlfriend of 10 years with whom he had sex, showed him a pregnancy test result showing that she was pregnant.

On receiving the news he was overjoyed and offered to marry her. Shortly after he went to Saudi Arabia to work, and his wife gave birth to a baby girl in the same year.

The birth of the child only five months after their marriage puzzled him but his wife told him that the baby was born prematurely, so he believed her, the husband said. Read More ..

Paternity Fraud - Spain Supreme Court - Civil Damages

Daily Mail UK

Adulterous woman ordered to pay husband £177,000 in 'moral damages'

The Daily Mail, UK
18th February 2009

An adulterous Spanish woman who conceived three children with her lover has been ordered to pay £177,000 in 'moral damages' to her husband.

The cuckolded man had believed that the three children were his until a DNA test eventually proved they were fathered by another man.

The husband, who along with the other man cannot be named for legal reasons to protect the children's identities, suspected his second wife may have been unfaithful in 2001.

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Infidelity 'is natural'

BBC, U.K., September 25, 1998

Females 'stray to gather the best possible genes for their offspring'

Infidelity may be natural according to studies that show nine out of 10 mammals and birds that mate for life are unfaithful.

Experts found animals that fool around are only following the urges of biology.

New studies using genetic testing techniques show that even the most apparently devoted of partners often go in search of the sexual company of strangers.

Females stray to gather the best possible genes for their offspring, while males are driven to father as many and as often as possible.

"True monogamy actually is rare," said Stephen T Emlen, an expert on evolutionary behaviour at Cornell University.

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Who's the Daddy?

Up to three million Britons may be wrong about who their real father is , experts claim. But using DNA paternity tests to discover the truth can cause its own problems.

BBC, U.K., May 16, 2003

Dad's got blue eyes, Baby brown...

When Tessa found out she was pregnant after fertility treatment, she felt a mix of delight and doubt.

This wasn't simply pre-baby nerves - she suspected that her husband might not be the father. For Tessa had started sleeping with a colleague when the stress of the ongoing treatment became too much.

Keen to build a family with her husband, she let him believe the baby was his. But her lover threatened to reveal all if she ended the affair, and Tessa soon fell pregnant again. This time, her lover started to make nuisance calls to her home.

Tessa had no choice but to tell her husband. "I said to him, 'I've had an affair and you may not be the father of my children.' So with that, he went up the stairs, got dressed and left. And that was it," Tessa says in Women Who Live a Lie, a programme for the BBC's Five Live Report.

paternity fraud in Jamaica

Would you wear the jacket?

THERE IS A story I used to find hilarious in my high school years about a not too bright man. He was light skinned, his wife was of similar hue, but their first child was born with very dark complexion (darker dan Bello, blacker dan Blakka).

When the man wondered aloud about the baby's complexion his wife assured him that the child was born dark because the child was conceived in darkness (they had sex with the lights off). The man accepted the explanation. Because he loved his wife dearly, he also ignored the fact that the child had other obvious signs of resemblance to the young dark skinned man who did their gardening. To fix the problem, the husband put flood lights, strobe lights, spotlights and forty other lights in the bed room so there would be no more darkness to create dark babies.

Children's Identity Fraud
Paternity Fraud

Duped Dads, Men Fight Centuries-Old Paternity Laws

United States

"Duped Dads, Men Fight Centuries-Old Paternity Laws"

"Supporters of paternity identification bills point to a 1999 study by the American Association of Blood Banks that found that in 30 percent of 280,000 blood tests performed to determine paternity, the man tested was not the biological father." Read More ..


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American Association of Blood Banks
Parentage Testing Program Unit
Annual Report Summary Testing in 2001

Volume of testing 310,490 for the 2001 study

The Supreme Court of Canada -
Cour suprême du Canada

Big win for child identity rights.

Father wins right to be named on birth registration forms. Read More ..

Paternity Fraud

Pittsburgh Tribune-Review

Tricked 'fathers' may get bill's help

Michael Lautar was devastated when he learned his first wife was cheating on him, and then crushed to discover the then 5-year-old girl who called him "Daddy" wasn't really his daughter.

Next came the sucker punch.

Lautar is under court order to pay nearly $800 a month in child support and other expenses, despite the fact his ex-wife has admitted in Allegheny County court papers that Lautar is not the girl's father. The child was born during their marriage. After the couple divorced, the mother married the girl's biological father. The mother, the father and the daughter live together in Moon, according to papers filed in Allegheny County Common Pleas Court.

"I'm stuck in this rip-off, this fraud," said Lautar, 40, of North Strabane. "It's paternity fraud, is what it is. ... And the state is enforcing this fraud."

New Zealand

Lack of DNA Paternity testing abuses Dads and Kids

New Zealand Child Support Reform Network.

Press release:
10 November 2004

Lack of free Family Court Ordered DNA Paternity testing abuses Dads and Kids.

"The Labour Government is abusing fathers and children by failing to legislate for free DNA testing to establish paternity", is how Jim Nicolle, spokesperson for the New Zealand Child Support Reform Network, responds to United Futures call for Family Court Ordered DNA paternity tests.